Hi,
I debated whether to write today but all of you have been with us for so long and today I really need the comfort of knowing you are still there. It's been a very emotional few days and I know today will be another. Denny has vacillated between the depths of despair and periods of time when he still sees that there could be hope. Today we will learn the results of Friday's MRI, so we will know more about what is causing his incredible weakness. He can no longer walk and turning himself in bed is exhausting for him. Also today, we are meeting with the social worker from Heartland Hospice to finalize plans with them. The kids, Pat and Patti Voss, and I worked this weekend to convert the dining room into a bedroom for Den, so I am as ready as I can be to bring him home.
Last night Denny asked for the kids and their families to come to the hospital. We were all there for a couple of hours and although he didn't say much, he smiled whenever he heard the voices of the little ones, and his voice was clear when he expressed his love for everyone. Everyone felt a little better when he asked for a bite of a cookie. I had planned to stay through the night if he wanted me there, but soon after the others left he assured me that the wave of fear and panic had been calmed and he just wanted to sleep, knowing we were all safe at home.
I will update this when I know more later on today.
Love,
Carla
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Hi Carla and Denny,
Just a note to say that Doug has been keeping me posted on everything that is happening. I just want you to know that you and the family are in my thoughts and prayers. I wish I could do more for all of you.
Take care.
Love, Mary
Hi Mrs. O,
Thank you for continuing to update everyone, even when it is hard to do. Mr. O is definitely in my thoughts and prayers. Please let all of the people who read this know if you need anything. You have a strong community of people who would be more than willing to help so let us know!
Amy Bennett
Mrs O,
I continue to follow your posts and want you to know that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers!
steve Van Nuland '96
Carla,
These are hard days. Please know that you are thought of often and prayed for even more.
Blessings,
Helene Iverson
Dear Carla and Denny,
Our prayers have been flooding to you and your family for months. Thank you for having the strength to keep us all updated. We send our love and wishes for some peaceful days for Denny.
Margi and Dan Voissem
Mr. & Mrs. O-
Your family is still in my constant prayers. Today one of my students asked how "that teacher who taught you how to write really good" was doing. We're praying for you here at Messmer!
God bless,
Abby Vogt
Praying for comfort and peace for Mr.O and your family. The Reitzners'
Dennis and Carla,
Thank you for updating. I know it takes a great deal of energy to do that. Sending prayers of strength today!
Mo
Dear Carla and Dennis,
Your recent post has deeply touched my heart and you should know that in all your struggle, you are ministering to us through your faith, patience and strength. Dennis and your entire family are in my prayers. Please know I am free to help out in any way I can.
Love,
Stephanie
Dear Carla and Denny, Our family is praying for yours. You have all shown tremendous strength and are an inspiration to us all. Dick and Pat Schermerhorn and family
Thoughts are prayers are with you during this time.
Katy Lee Connor '91
Hi Denny & Carla - the kids and I pray for you every night. I'm sure you know this, but you are so loved by so many! I look forward to finding out more specifically how we can help, and to being able to visit soon. Love and prayers - Kim
Please know that we pray for Denny, you and the rest of your family constantly. If there's anything we can do, don't hesitate to ask.
Mike & Cindy Winkelman
Dear Carla & family;
We continue to talk to Jesus on Denny's behalf several times a day.We know HE loves you all so much;
...feel the peace of knowing "all is well" with HIS loving arms around you. Aunt Aggie & Uncle Bruce
I pray that God gives you peace and strength during this time. You are in my thoughts and prayers!
Jennifer Lee Laird '91
Hi Mr. and Mrs. O,
Keeping you in our prayers and hoping beyond hope that the MRI helps discover the reason behind this latest setback.
Although it has been many years since I was in Mr. O's class (class of '99), his inspiration and teachings have remained with me. I could not have completed my doctoral degree without the skills and the art of writing I honed in Mr. O's classes. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Sheryl (Nettekoven) Delain
Denny, Carla and family,
We are praying for you and know you will find peace when Denny is home. He is such a gentle, caring man and is a huge inspiration to our children. Regards,
Kal and Tim Stumpf -Michael, Patrick and Megan
Dear Denny and Carla
Our thoughts and prayers go out for both of you. We both check the blog and really appreciate it. We also get updates from Uncle Ted thru Amy's mom. We can't fathom the strength you both have dealing with this. It seems hard at times, but there is a reason for everything. Keep the faith in the Lord and he will take care of all.
Cousins Gary and Amy 0-Stevens Point
Dear Carla & Denny,
My prayers have been with you these many months and I will continue to pray for physical, emotional and mental strength for both of you. May God's love shine upon you.
Donna P.
Mr. O ~
My thoughts and prayers are with as you endure this difficult journey. Keep fighting the good fight...we are all cheering you on.
Nori Quinn Rochon
Dear Carla and Denny,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Having been a Hospice Volunteer I know you will be blessed by the comfort and presence of the Hospice team.
God bless you,
Patti and David Lee
Good morning Carla and Denny,
I know Ben has written you to let you know how much Denny's instruction has helped him. I too would like to thank Denny for all he has done. Ben just received a good grade on his first major paper for UW law school . Ellen, and I could not be prouder. He learned how to write at Xavier. Denny, you Ms.Centon,and Jim Pfefferle are the reasons he is doing so well. I pray a Hail Mary for you often.
Jim Weiland
Good morning Carla and Denny,
I know Ben has written you to let you know how much Denny's instruction has helped him. I too would like to thank Denny for all he has done. Ben just received a good grade on his first major paper for UW law school . Ellen, and I could not be prouder. He learned how to write at Xavier. Denny, you Ms.Centon,and Jim Pfefferle are the reasons he is writing so well.
I pray a Hail Mary for you often.
Jim Weiland
Hey there! I'd just like to say thanks for creating this blog so I can stay updated with what is going on! I really miss Mr.O's class and continue to keep you all in my prayers. If there is anything I can do please let me know! Take care!
Christy
Hi Denny and Carla,
The strength and courage that both of you have displayed over the past several months is most remarkable. Our love and prayers are with you both and your family.
Peter and Helen
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